Tasirin Abota Ta Gari: Yadda Za Ka Zaɓi Abokan Da Za Su Kai Ka Ga Nasara
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Tasirin Abota Ta Gari: Yadda Abokanka Suke Shafar Halayenka
Wani tsohon karin magana yana cewa, "Nuna mini abokanka, zan gaya maka wanda kake." Wannan magana ba tatsuniya ba ce; gaskiya ce ta rayuwa wacce binciken dabi'un dan adam da koyarwar addini duka suka tabbatar. Abokan da kake tare da su suna da ikon maida kai mutumin kirki ko kuma akasin haka, ba tare da ka sani ba.
1. Tasirin Hankali da Dabi'u
Idan kana tare da abokai masu buri da himma, koda kai rago ne, sannu a hankali zakaji kana son yin kokari kamar su. Haka ma idan kana tare da masu tsoron Allah, hakan zai karfafa maka gwiwa wajen yin ibada da nisantar abubuwan assha. Abota tana shafar yadda kake tunani da yadda kake yanke shawara a kowane mataki na rayuwarka.
2. Abota a Matsayin Madubi
Aboki na gari shi ne wanda yake gaya maka gaskiya koda tana da daci. Ba wanda zai rika shafa maka fenti ko yaba kuskurenka ba. Idan kana da abokan da basu taba tsawata maka idan kayi ba daidai ba, to ya kamata ka sake duba wannan abotar. Aboki na gari madubi ne; yana nuna maka makasarka domin ka gyara.
3. Kare Makomar Rayuwa
Abokan ban-za ba kawai halinka suke batawa ba, har ma da damammakin da zasu zo maka a rayuwa. Mutane da dama sun rasa aiki, aure, ko kima a idon al'umma saboda laifin abokan da suke tare da su. Don haka, zaben aboki ba abu ne na wasa ba; zabe ne na irin rayuwar da kake son yi a nan gaba.
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